📖 Overview
Greg Behrendt is an American comedian, author, and television personality who gained widespread recognition as a script consultant for HBO's "Sex and the City" and co-author of the New York Times bestseller "He's Just Not That Into You" (2004), which was later adapted into a feature film.
After graduating from the University of Oregon with a theater degree in 1991, Behrendt established himself in the San Francisco comedy scene, performing alongside notable comics like Margaret Cho, David Cross, and Patton Oswalt. His comedy career included appearances on major television shows including The Tonight Show and Late Night with Conan O'Brien.
Behrendt expanded his media presence by hosting two television shows: "The Greg Behrendt Show" (2006) and "Greg Behrendt's Wake Up Call" (2009). He also released a Comedy Central special titled "Greg Behrendt is Uncool" in 2006, further solidifying his presence in mainstream entertainment.
Beyond his entertainment career, Behrendt has continued to write and produce content across multiple platforms, including podcasting with "Walking the Room" and performing music with his band The Reigning Monarchs. His work often combines comedy with relationship advice and self-improvement themes.
👀 Reviews
Readers praise Behrendt's direct, no-nonsense approach to relationship advice in "He's Just Not That Into You." Many cite the book as helping them end unfulfilling relationships and recognize red flags. One Amazon reviewer noted: "This book saved me years of waiting around for the wrong person."
Readers appreciate:
- Humor mixed with practical advice
- Clear, actionable examples
- Male perspective on dating behavior
- Short, easy-to-digest chapters
Common criticisms:
- Oversimplified advice
- Repetitive content
- Reinforces gender stereotypes
- Some find the tone harsh or dismissive
Review Metrics:
Goodreads: 3.8/5 (98,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.5/5 (2,000+ ratings)
His other books receive lower ratings, with "It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken" averaging 3.7/5 on Goodreads. His comedy works and TV shows generate limited online discussion, with most reviews focusing on his relationship advice books.
Readers frequently mention the book's impact on their dating choices, though some argue it promotes an overly rigid view of relationships.
📚 Books by Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You (2004)
Co-authored with Liz Tuccillo, this relationship advice book explains why men's actions often indicate lack of interest in romantic relationships, based on insights from Behrendt's work as a consultant on Sex and the City.
It's Just a Date: How to Get 'em, How to Read 'em, and How to Rock 'em (2006) Co-authored with Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, this book provides practical guidance for navigating the dating process from initial meeting through early relationship stages.
It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken (2005) Co-authored with Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, this self-help book offers advice and strategies for dealing with relationship endings and moving forward after breakups.
This Is Why You're Not Married Yet (2012) Co-authored with Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, this book examines common patterns and behaviors that may prevent people from finding lasting relationships.
It's Just a Date: How to Get 'em, How to Read 'em, and How to Rock 'em (2006) Co-authored with Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, this book provides practical guidance for navigating the dating process from initial meeting through early relationship stages.
It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken (2005) Co-authored with Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, this self-help book offers advice and strategies for dealing with relationship endings and moving forward after breakups.
This Is Why You're Not Married Yet (2012) Co-authored with Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, this book examines common patterns and behaviors that may prevent people from finding lasting relationships.
👥 Similar authors
Steve Harvey writes relationship advice books from a male perspective, focusing on how men think and operate in relationships. His book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" shares similar direct advice about dating and understanding the opposite sex.
Liz Tuccillo co-authored "He's Just Not That Into You" with Behrendt and writes about relationships with the same blend of humor and practical advice. She also worked as a writer on Sex and the City, bringing similar insights to dating and relationships.
Matthew Hussey provides dating and relationship advice through books and speaking engagements that mirror Behrendt's straightforward approach. His background in coaching and media work includes similar themes about understanding relationship dynamics.
John Gray writes about relationships and communication between men and women, with his "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" series sharing comparable insights. His work focuses on helping readers understand gender differences in relationships.
Dan Savage combines humor with relationship advice in his writing and media work. His approach to relationship topics includes the same mix of comedy and practical guidance that characterizes Behrendt's work.
Liz Tuccillo co-authored "He's Just Not That Into You" with Behrendt and writes about relationships with the same blend of humor and practical advice. She also worked as a writer on Sex and the City, bringing similar insights to dating and relationships.
Matthew Hussey provides dating and relationship advice through books and speaking engagements that mirror Behrendt's straightforward approach. His background in coaching and media work includes similar themes about understanding relationship dynamics.
John Gray writes about relationships and communication between men and women, with his "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" series sharing comparable insights. His work focuses on helping readers understand gender differences in relationships.
Dan Savage combines humor with relationship advice in his writing and media work. His approach to relationship topics includes the same mix of comedy and practical guidance that characterizes Behrendt's work.