Lori Gottlieb

Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist, journalist, and bestselling author known for her work exploring relationships, mental health, and human behavior. Her most notable book "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone" (2019) became a New York Times bestseller and has been published in over 20 languages. Prior to her career as a therapist, Gottlieb worked as a television executive and writer for shows including "ER" and "The West Wing." She later became a regular contributor to The Atlantic, where she writes the weekly "Dear Therapist" advice column, and has written for numerous publications including The New York Times, Time, and O, The Oprah Magazine. Gottlieb earned her clinical training from the Psychoanalytic Center of Philadelphia and maintains a private practice in Los Angeles. She is also a sought-after expert on mental health topics and has appeared as a frequent guest on television shows such as "Good Morning America," "CBS This Morning," and "CNN." Her other books include "Stick Figure: A Diary of My Former Self" (2000) and "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough" (2010). The television rights to "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone" were acquired by Eva Longoria and ABC for development as a television series.

Readers connect strongly with Gottlieb's honest, conversational writing style in "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone." Many reviewers appreciate her dual perspective as both therapist and patient, with readers on Amazon noting how the book helped normalize therapy and mental health struggles. Positive reviews highlight: - Raw vulnerability in sharing personal experiences - Balance of professional insight and relatable storytelling - Clear explanations of therapeutic concepts - Humor throughout serious topics Common criticisms: - Too much focus on privileged clients' problems - Some find her self-disclosure unprofessional - Occasional repetitive sections - Privacy concerns about client stories Ratings across platforms: - Goodreads: 4.3/5 from 295,000+ ratings - Amazon: 4.6/5 from 28,000+ reviews - Audible: 4.7/5 from 40,000+ reviews "Marry Him" received more polarized feedback, with readers either praising its pragmatic approach to relationships or criticizing its perceived settling message. This book averages 3.7/5 on Goodreads from 4,000+ ratings.

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone (2019) A therapist chronicles her work with patients while dealing with her own personal crisis and seeking therapy herself.

Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough (2010) An examination of modern dating and marriage expectations based on interviews with married women, dating experts, and relationship researchers.

Stick Figure: A Diary of My Former Self (2000) A memoir based on the author's childhood diaries chronicling her experience with an eating disorder at age eleven.

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