📖 Overview
Theoren "Theo" Fleury is a former professional ice hockey player and bestselling author who played 15 seasons in the National Hockey League, primarily with the Calgary Flames. Despite his small stature at 5'6", he became one of hockey's most dynamic players, winning the Stanley Cup in 1989 and an Olympic gold medal in 2002.
Beyond his athletic achievements, Fleury gained prominence as an author through his 2009 memoir "Playing with Fire," which exposed his experiences of sexual abuse by a former junior hockey coach. The book detailed his subsequent struggles with addiction and mental health while achieving success in professional hockey.
In his post-hockey career, Fleury has authored multiple books focused on healing from trauma and advocating for abuse survivors. His 2012 follow-up book "Conversations with a Rattlesnake" explores trauma recovery through psychological insights and personal narrative.
Fleury continues to write and speak about mental health, addiction recovery, and Indigenous issues, drawing from his Métis heritage and personal experiences. His writing style combines raw honesty about difficult subjects with messages of hope and resilience for readers facing similar challenges.
👀 Reviews
Readers consistently praise Fleury's raw honesty and courage in sharing his traumatic experiences through "Playing with Fire." Many credit the book with helping them confront their own abuse histories and addiction struggles.
From reader reviews:
"His brutal honesty about addiction and abuse helped me feel less alone" - Goodreads reviewer
"Powerful story of survival that gave me hope in my own recovery" - Amazon review
Readers appreciate:
- Direct, unfiltered writing style
- Balance of dark experiences with moments of triumph
- Impact on reducing stigma around abuse and mental health
- Inclusion of hockey career details
Common criticisms:
- Graphic content too intense for some readers
- Writing can be disjointed/scattered at times
- Hockey details overwhelming for non-fans
Ratings across platforms:
Goodreads: 4.2/5 (7,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.7/5 (850+ reviews)
Book Depository: 4.5/5 (200+ reviews)
"Conversations with a Rattlesnake" receives similar praise for its healing focus but fewer total reviews (under 1,000 across platforms).
📚 Books by Theo Fleury
Playing With Fire (2009)
Co-written with Kirstie McLellan Day, this autobiography details Fleury's NHL career, childhood trauma, and struggles with addiction.
Conversations with a Rattlesnake (2014) Co-authored with Kim Barthel, this book explores trauma, healing and the neuroscience of mental health through dialogues between Fleury and Barthel.
Hockey Towns (2015) Co-written with Kirstie McLellan Day, this collection presents stories and memories from various Canadian hockey communities Fleury visited throughout his career.
Conversations with a Rattlesnake (2014) Co-authored with Kim Barthel, this book explores trauma, healing and the neuroscience of mental health through dialogues between Fleury and Barthel.
Hockey Towns (2015) Co-written with Kirstie McLellan Day, this collection presents stories and memories from various Canadian hockey communities Fleury visited throughout his career.
👥 Similar authors
Ken Dryden writes about hockey from an insider perspective and explores themes of mental toughness and personal struggle. His memoir "The Game" shares similarities with Fleury's raw storytelling about life in professional hockey.
Clint Malarchuk documents his battles with mental health and trauma as an NHL goalie in his autobiography. His writing focuses on surviving personal demons while maintaining a professional sports career.
Sheldon Kennedy writes about abuse in hockey and his path to healing from trauma. His experiences parallel Fleury's story of confronting past abuse and working toward recovery.
Bob Probert tells stories of fighting and addiction during his NHL career through his autobiography. His memoir deals with similar themes of substance abuse and redemption that appear in Fleury's work.
Brian Meier chronicles addiction recovery and personal transformation after leaving professional sports. His writing style focuses on direct accounts of hitting bottom and finding a way back, much like Fleury's narrative approach.
Clint Malarchuk documents his battles with mental health and trauma as an NHL goalie in his autobiography. His writing focuses on surviving personal demons while maintaining a professional sports career.
Sheldon Kennedy writes about abuse in hockey and his path to healing from trauma. His experiences parallel Fleury's story of confronting past abuse and working toward recovery.
Bob Probert tells stories of fighting and addiction during his NHL career through his autobiography. His memoir deals with similar themes of substance abuse and redemption that appear in Fleury's work.
Brian Meier chronicles addiction recovery and personal transformation after leaving professional sports. His writing style focuses on direct accounts of hitting bottom and finding a way back, much like Fleury's narrative approach.