📖 Overview
An Orderly Man is the third volume of actor and writer Dirk Bogarde's autobiography, focusing on his life after leaving England for France in the 1960s. The narrative follows his experiences establishing a new home in Provence with his manager and companion Anthony Forward.
The book details Bogarde's transition from film star to writer, chronicling his daily routines and interactions with local villagers as he adapts to rural French life. He recounts encounters with notable figures from the entertainment world who visit his remote property, while describing the challenges of maintaining an old farmhouse in the French countryside.
His observations capture both the practical and social aspects of expatriate life, from navigating local customs to managing domestic staff and dealing with the region's seasonal changes. Bogarde writes about his developing career as an author alongside his continued work in European cinema during this period.
The memoir explores themes of reinvention and belonging, examining how physical and cultural displacement can lead to personal growth. Through his precise documentation of this chapter in his life, Bogarde presents a study of what it means to purposefully change one's identity and find contentment in a new way of living.
👀 Reviews
Readers appreciate Bogarde's candid writing style and insider perspective on the film industry. The book stands out for its tales of life in France and details about the author's home renovations. Many note his self-deprecating humor and ability to capture small moments of daily life.
Common praise focuses on Bogarde's descriptions of Provence and his relationship with his partner Anthony Forward. Multiple reviewers mention the engaging portrait of rural French culture and village life.
Some readers find the pacing uneven and note that certain passages about home repairs drag on too long. A few reviews mention confusion about the timeline and wish for more cohesive storytelling.
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.1/5 (57 ratings)
Amazon: 4.5/5 (12 ratings)
Library Thing: 4.0/5 (8 ratings)
"Sharp observations and dry wit make this a delightful read" - Amazon reviewer
"Too much focus on mundane details of construction work" - Goodreads reviewer
"His love for Provence shines through every page" - Library Thing reviewer
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🤔 Interesting facts
🎬 "An Orderly Man" is the third volume of Dirk Bogarde's autobiography, following his life after leaving England to live in France in the 1960s.
📝 Bogarde wrote the book at his farmhouse in Provence, where he lived a quiet, disciplined life vastly different from his previous existence as a British film star.
🌟 Though best known as an actor, Bogarde went on to write eight memoirs and six novels, earning significant acclaim as an author in his later years.
🏠 The book details Bogarde's meticulous attention to domestic life, from arranging flowers to organizing drawers—habits he developed in reaction to the chaos of his early acting career.
🎭 Throughout the memoir, Bogarde reflects on his transformation from matinee idol to serious dramatic actor, including his groundbreaking role in "Victim" (1961), one of the first films to address homosexuality in British cinema.