📖 Overview
After leaving his fiancé at the altar years ago, Declan has avoided serious relationships. He agrees to participate in a YouTube dating series hosted by his friend Sidney, documenting his experiences with different types of dates and relationships.
Through the video series, Declan explores questions about commitment, identity, and what he wants in a partner. His friends support him as he navigates the dating scene, but the growing audience for the YouTube channel adds pressure to his personal journey.
The story follows not only Declan's dating experiences but also his relationships with his close-knit group of friends and his career at a local nonprofit. As his online following grows, he must balance authenticity with the expectations of his viewers.
The novel examines modern dating culture, queer relationships, and the impact of social media on personal growth. It raises questions about how people define love and commitment while staying true to themselves.
👀 Reviews
Readers appreciate the authentic representation of nonbinary identity and queer relationships, with many noting the realistic portrayal of dating and relationships. The casual, conversational writing style and humorous dialogue earned positive mentions. Several reviews highlight the chemistry between Dec and Sal.
Common criticisms focus on the slow pacing and repetitive internal monologue. Some readers found the protagonist Dec's indecisiveness frustrating. A few reviews mention the YouTube dating premise felt underdeveloped.
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.8/5 (2,300+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.2/5 (150+ ratings)
BookBrowne: 4/5
Sample reader comments:
"Dec's anxiety and overthinking felt real" - Goodreads reviewer
"Wanted more development of the YouTube show concept" - Amazon reviewer
"The banter between characters kept me reading" - Barnes & Noble reviewer
"Too much time spent in Dec's head" - Goodreads reviewer
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 The book explores demisexuality, a sexual orientation where people only experience attraction after forming a strong emotional connection
📚 Author Kris Ripper identifies as genderqueer and uses ze/zir pronouns, bringing authentic representation to queer romance literature
💑 The story begins with the main character's decision to participate in a YouTube dating channel after leaving their fiancé at the altar
🎥 The narrative incorporates modern social media elements, with the dating experiences being documented for a YouTube series called "The Love Study"
💫 The novel subverts traditional romance tropes by featuring a non-binary love interest and exploring relationships outside conventional gender roles