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Before I Go

by Colleen Oakley

📖 Overview

Twenty-seven-year-old Daisy Richmond receives devastating news about her cancer prognosis. Rather than focus on herself, she becomes consumed with finding a new wife for her husband Jack before she dies. Daisy approaches her mission with determination, creating spreadsheets and secretly vetting potential candidates. Her quest leads her through a range of experiences - from online dating sites to local meetups - all while managing her declining health and her relationship with Jack. The story tracks Daisy's journey as she grapples with mortality, marriage, and the nature of love. Her efforts to plan for a future she won't be part of raise questions about control, acceptance, and what it means to truly let go. At its core, this novel explores how humans face death and loss, illuminating the complex ways we try to protect those we love. The narrative challenges conventional ideas about grief, suggesting that humor and hope can exist alongside profound sadness.

👀 Reviews

Readers found this novel emotionally impactful but noted the challenging subject matter. Many connected with the main character Daisy's humor and determination, appreciating how the author balanced heavy themes with lighter moments. Liked: - Realistic portrayal of terminal illness and relationships - Strong character development - Balance of humor amid serious topics - Writing style that flows naturally Disliked: - Slow pacing in the middle sections - Some found the ending unsatisfying - A few readers felt secondary characters needed more depth - Plot points that seemed unrealistic Review Scores: Goodreads: 3.8/5 (22,000+ ratings) Amazon: 4.3/5 (1,200+ ratings) BookBrowse: 4/5 Sample Reader Comments: "The author nails the small details of living with illness" - Goodreads reviewer "Wanted to love it but the plot dragged" - Amazon reviewer "Perfect mix of heart and humor without being overly sentimental" - BookPage reader review

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🤔 Interesting facts

🌟 Author Colleen Oakley was inspired to write this novel after reading an article about a terminally ill woman who was trying to find a new wife for her husband before she died 📚 The book tackles the complex emotional journey of a stage III breast cancer patient while incorporating moments of humor and lightheartedness throughout the narrative 💑 The story explores the rarely discussed topic of how terminal illness affects intimate relationships and marriage dynamics 🎯 "Before I Go" was named one of the best books of 2015 by multiple outlets, including Kirkus Reviews and Library Journal 🏆 The novel was Colleen Oakley's debut work, and she wrote it while pregnant with twins and battling severe morning sickness