📖 Overview
Susan Richards adopts a neglected mare named Lay Me Down from an animal rescue operation. Despite her experience with horses, Richards faces new challenges in rehabilitating this gentle but damaged creature.
The narrative follows their developing bond over the course of several seasons in upstate New York. Richards' own past traumas and struggles with relationships emerge as she cares for Lay Me Down and her other horses.
Through caring for this unique mare, Richards confronts her fears of attachment and loss. The memoir explores how connections between humans and animals can lead to personal transformation and healing.
👀 Reviews
Readers connect with Richards' raw honesty about depression, alcoholism, and finding healing through her relationship with an abandoned mare. The emotional journey resonates particularly with horse owners and animal lovers.
Likes:
- Clear, straightforward writing style
- Authentic portrayal of human-animal bonds
- Relatable descriptions of personal growth
- Accurate details about horse care and behavior
Dislikes:
- Some found the author's self-reflection repetitive
- Several readers wanted more focus on the horse
- A few noted the story moves slowly in parts
- Critics felt the ending was rushed
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.0/5 (6,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.5/5 (500+ ratings)
Sample reader comment: "She doesn't sugar-coat her struggles or present herself as a hero. The relationship with Lay Me Down feels genuine rather than manufactured for dramatic effect." - Goodreads reviewer
Several book clubs recommend it for discussions about healing from trauma and the therapeutic value of animals.
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The Eighty-Dollar Champion by Elizabeth Letts A Dutch immigrant and his rescue horse rise from obscurity to win the National Horse Show at Madison Square Garden in 1958.
The Soul of a Horse by Joe Camp A filmmaker's journey into horse ownership leads to discoveries about natural horse care and the deep connections between humans and equines.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🐎 Susan Richards adopted Lay Me Down, the mare in the book, from the SPCA after the horse was rescued from a farm where 40 neglected horses were found.
🌟 The book spent 8 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list and has been translated into 14 languages.
🦋 The author struggled with alcoholism for many years before finding solace and healing through her relationships with horses.
📝 Richards wrote two sequel memoirs: "Chosen Forever" and "Saddled: How a Spirited Horse Reined Me In and Set Me Free."
💕 Lay Me Down's gentle and forgiving nature, despite her history of abuse, helped Richards learn to trust and love again after years of failed relationships and personal struggles.