📖 Overview
The Habit of Being collects over two decades of personal letters written by American author Flannery O'Connor from 1948 to 1964. Editor Sally Fitzgerald, a close friend of O'Connor's, compiled and annotated this correspondence between O'Connor and her wide circle of friends, family members, and fellow writers.
O'Connor's letters reveal her daily life on her family farm in Georgia, where she wrote fiction while managing her lupus diagnosis. The collection documents her creative process, her Catholic faith, and her observations about literature and Southern culture during pivotal years in American history.
These letters showcase O'Connor's sharp wit and direct communication style, traits that also defined her fiction. Her correspondence ranges from discussions of peacock-raising to theological debates with other intellectuals, creating a multifaceted portrait of one of America's most distinctive literary voices.
The collection illuminates the intersection of artistry, faith, and perseverance in O'Connor's life and work. Her letters demonstrate how physical limitation and regional isolation shaped but never diminished her creative and intellectual engagement with the world.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe these letters as revealing O'Connor's sharp wit, faith, and daily life while managing lupus on her Georgia farm. The correspondence spans her literary career until her death in 1964.
Readers appreciated:
- O'Connor's humor and candid personality
- Insights into her writing process and influences
- Discussion of Catholicism and theology
- Details about raising peacocks and farm life
- Her friendship with Betty Hester ("A")
Common criticisms:
- Length (632 pages) feels excessive to some
- Too many references to forgotten social events
- Religious discussions can be dense for non-Catholic readers
- Some letters focus on mundane details
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.5/5 (2,100+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.7/5 (190+ ratings)
One reader noted: "Her letters are as carefully crafted as her fiction." Another wrote: "Shows a warmer, funnier side of O'Connor than her stark fiction suggests."
Most negative reviews focused on length rather than content.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🗸 The letters in this collection were carefully selected from over 2,000 pieces of O'Connor's correspondence, spanning from 1948 until her death in 1964
🗸 Though battling lupus, O'Connor wrote these letters with remarkable wit and humor, often from her family farm in Milledgeville, Georgia, where she raised peacocks
🗸 The book's editor, Sally Fitzgerald, was a close personal friend of O'Connor and lived with her for a time in Connecticut during the author's early writing career
🗸 O'Connor's letters reveal her deep Catholic faith and how it influenced her fiction writing, particularly her understanding of grace in seemingly dark or violent moments
🗸 Many of the letters discuss her most famous works, including "Wise Blood" and "The Violent Bear It Away," providing intimate insights into her creative process and intentions behind these stories