📖 Overview
Fail, Fail Again, Fail Better contains a commencement speech delivered by Buddhist teacher Pema Chödrön at Naropa University in 2014. The book expands on this speech with additional commentary and reflections.
Chödrön draws from Buddhist wisdom and her personal experiences to address how humans can relate to failure and disappointment. She presents specific techniques and mindsets for working with difficult emotions and setbacks.
The text moves between practical advice, personal anecdotes, and traditional Buddhist concepts. Each section builds on the core message while remaining accessible to readers from any background.
The book offers a perspective on failure as a universal human experience that can lead to growth and transformation. Its themes connect to broader questions about resilience, acceptance, and finding meaning in life's challenges.
👀 Reviews
Readers found this short book to be a quick read that offers Buddhist perspectives on embracing failure and uncertainty. Many note it's based on Chodron's 2014 Naropa University commencement speech.
Readers appreciated:
- Clear, accessible writing style
- Practical advice for handling setbacks
- Personal anecdotes that illustrate concepts
- Brief format that can be read in one sitting
Common criticisms:
- Too short for the price ($12-15)
- Content feels stretched thin
- Much of the material exists in her other books
- Some found it too basic/surface-level
One reader noted: "This would make more impact as a blog post than a book."
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.9/5 (2,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.5/5 (450+ ratings)
Several reviewers mentioned the book works better as a gift for graduates or those facing major life transitions rather than readers seeking deep Buddhist teachings.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Pema Chödrön wrote this book based on her 2014 commencement address at Naropa University, where she shared wisdom about embracing life's setbacks and disappointments.
📚 The book's title is inspired by Samuel Beckett's famous quote: "Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better."
🧘♀️ Before becoming a Buddhist nun, Pema Chödrön was a schoolteacher and mother of two children, known as Deirdre Blomfield-Brown.
🎓 The foreword was written by Tina Fey, who brings her own perspective on failure and resilience from her experiences in comedy and entertainment.
💫 The book's central teaching draws from the Buddhist concept of "shenpa," which describes our habitual tendency to get hooked on negative thoughts and emotions when things don't go as planned.