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The New Joy of Sex

📖 Overview

The New Joy of Sex is an updated version of Alex Comfort's 1972 illustrated sex manual. This new edition by Chris Foss maintains the original's practical approach while incorporating modern perspectives on relationships, safety, and consent. The text breaks down intimacy topics into alphabetized entries covering anatomy, techniques, and emotional dynamics. Original artwork and medical illustrations accompany the straightforward explanations and advice. Health and safety information is integrated throughout, including discussions of STIs, contraception, and communication between partners. The manual addresses contemporary topics like internet dating and evolving views on gender and orientation. This edition serves as both a practical guide and a reflection of shifting cultural attitudes around sex and relationships since the original publication. The updates demonstrate changes in how society approaches intimacy, pleasure, and partnership.

👀 Reviews

Readers appreciate the updated medical information, modern photography, and more inclusive approach compared to the 1972 original. Many note the book maintains a healthy balance between clinical guidance and intimate connection. Likes: - Clear anatomical illustrations - Non-judgmental tone - Addresses aging, disability, and body image - Practical safety advice - Tasteful photography Dislikes: - Some find it less playful than original version - Several sections feel rushed or oversimplified - Limited coverage of LGBTQ+ topics - Too much focus on vanilla activities - Some readers prefer the original sketched artwork Average Ratings: Goodreads: 3.8/5 (426 ratings) Amazon: 4.2/5 (312 ratings) "Much more clinical than the original, but that's both good and bad" - Goodreads reviewer "Updated medical info is helpful but it lost some charm" - Amazon reviewer "Better photos but misses the warmth of the first edition" - LibraryThing review

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🤔 Interesting facts

🔸 Published in 2008, this edition was a complete rewrite of Alex Comfort's original 1972 Joy of Sex, updating the content for modern relationships and incorporating new scientific understanding of sexuality. 🔸 The book's original line drawings were replaced with tasteful photographs in this version, moving away from the 1970s aesthetic while maintaining the educational value. 🔸 Author Susan Quilliam, who updated the text, is a relationship psychologist and advice columnist who has written 22 books on love and sexuality. 🔸 Unlike its predecessor, this version includes extensive information about emotional intimacy, consent, and sexual health, reflecting contemporary values and concerns. 🔸 The book retains the cookbook-style format of the original, with sections organized like a menu (starters, main courses, sauces), making potentially intimidating material more approachable and fun.