📖 Overview
Three families raise four biological siblings who were adopted from the same mother. The adoptive mothers - Tabitha, Elizabeth, and Ginger - have created an unconventional arrangement to keep the children connected, including shared vacations and weekly video calls.
During a two-week summer vacation in Aspen, the carefully maintained balance between the families faces a test. The biological mother's pregnancy announcement forces them to confront their insecurities and examine their roles in their unique family structure.
Through shifting perspectives between the three mothers, the novel explores adoption, motherhood, and the true meaning of family bonds. The story tackles questions about what makes a mother, how to honor biological connections while building new ones, and the work required to sustain chosen family relationships.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this as a thoughtful exploration of open adoption dynamics, though many found the pacing slow and repetitive. The focus on day-to-day family interactions resonated with adoptive parents who saw their experiences reflected.
Likes:
- Authentic portrayal of complex emotions around adoption
- Strong character development, especially of the three mothers
- Realistic depiction of blended family challenges
- Nuanced handling of birth mother relationships
Dislikes:
- Plot moves too slowly with limited action
- Too much internal monologue
- Characters' issues feel unresolved
- Some found it hard to distinguish between the mothers' voices
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.7/5 (3,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.1/5 (500+ ratings)
Reader quote: "Brown captures the messy reality of trying to create family connections where none naturally exist." - Goodreads reviewer
Another reader noted: "The premise was interesting but the execution dragged. Too much telling rather than showing." - Amazon reviewer
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 This novel was inspired by Eleanor Brown's own experience as an adoptive mother and her connections within the adoption community.
📚 The book explores the complex dynamics of three sets of parents who adopted biological siblings, mirroring real-life "adoption constellation" arrangements.
👶 Open adoption, which is featured prominently in the story, has become increasingly common in the U.S., with approximately 95% of modern adoptions having some level of openness.
✍️ Eleanor Brown previously wrote The Weird Sisters, which spent several weeks on the New York Times bestseller list and was translated into multiple languages.
🤝 The author spent three years researching and interviewing adoptive families, birth mothers, and adoption professionals to ensure authentic representation in the novel.