📖 Overview
Joy is a 30-year-old Black woman who is asexual and works at a publishing company in Austin, Texas. Her best friend Malcolm, whom she secretly loves, invites her on a weekend trip that turns out to be a scheme to set her up with someone.
The weekend becomes a complex romantic experiment as Joy grapples with her feelings for Malcolm while getting to know Fox, the person Malcolm wants her to date. Joy and Fox work together to devise a plan that could help them both navigate their respective romantic situations.
The story follows Joy as she confronts questions about the nature of love, friendship, and what it means to be asexual in a world focused on sexual attraction. Through her experiences, the narrative explores different types of relationships and the various ways people can connect with each other.
This contemporary romance offers representation of asexual characters while examining broader themes of self-acceptance, trust, and the courage to be honest about one's desires. The book challenges conventional romance tropes while celebrating platonic love alongside romantic relationships.
👀 Reviews
Readers highlight the authentic portrayal of asexual and aromantic relationships, with many noting how the book explores different types of love without forcing sexual content. The friend group dynamics and complex platonic relationships resonate with many reviewers.
Readers appreciate:
- Clear explanations of asexuality without being didactic
- Black representation and diverse characters
- The focus on friendship and chosen family
- Joy-centered narrative rather than trauma
Common criticisms:
- Slow pacing in the middle sections
- Some found the dialogue unrealistic
- Plot feels predictable to romance readers
- Character motivations can seem unclear
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.8/5 (6,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.2/5 (230+ ratings)
StoryGraph: 3.75/5 (1,200+ ratings)
One frequent comment notes: "Finally a romance that shows asexual people can have fulfilling relationships." Several readers mention the book helped them understand asexuality better, though some wished for more depth in the supporting characters.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Claire Kann wrote this groundbreaking romance novel featuring an asexual Black woman as the protagonist, addressing the intersection of multiple underrepresented identities in contemporary fiction.
💝 The novel explores "queerplatonic relationships" - a term describing deeply committed partnerships that don't fit traditional romantic or friendship categories.
📚 The story incorporates the "fake dating" trope popular in romance novels but subverts it by examining it through an asexual lens.
🎭 The main character, Joy, works as a social media manager for a theater company, reflecting the author's own background in communications and media.
🌈 The book was released in 2022 during a notable surge in publishing of LGBTQIA+ romantic fiction, particularly those featuring ace (asexual) characters.