📖 Overview
Twelve-year-old Jaden, adopted from Romania at age eight, struggles to connect with his American parents and process his abandonment trauma. When his parents decide to adopt a baby from Kazakhstan, Jaden must travel with them across the world.
The family's journey through Kazakhstan forces Jaden to confront his past experiences in the Romanian orphanage system. In his new surroundings, he forms an unexpected bond with a toddler at the Kazakh orphanage and begins working with a local man who maintains the facility's boiler.
Through Jaden's perspective, the novel examines attachment, belonging, and the complex emotional terrain of international adoption. The story captures the challenges of building trust and family bonds while healing from early childhood experiences.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this adoption story as emotionally raw and authentic in portraying attachment disorders and family dynamics. Many note the realistic depiction of the main character Jaden's anger, trauma, and difficulty bonding.
Positives:
- Honest portrayal of international adoption challenges
- Complex character relationships
- Educational about attachment disorders in adopted children
- Strong voice and unique perspective
Negatives:
- Some found the pacing slow in the middle sections
- A few readers wanted more resolution at the ending
- Several mention it may be too intense for younger readers
- Some adoption advocates felt it painted too negative a picture
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.9/5 (2,100+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.3/5 (89 ratings)
"A raw look at the reality many adoptive families face," writes one adoptive parent reviewer. Another notes: "The author doesn't sugarcoat the difficulties but still maintains hope throughout."
Common reader feedback suggests the book works better for mature middle grade readers and adults rather than younger children.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Author Cynthia Kadohata was inspired to write this novel after adopting her own son from Kazakhstan
🌟 The book tackles complex themes of attachment disorder and adoption trauma, which affect many internationally adopted children
🌟 The story's main character, Jaden, was adopted from Romania at age eight - a country that has since banned international adoptions
🌟 Kadohata extensively researched Kazakhstan's orphanage system and cultural practices to accurately portray the setting
🌟 The author won the prestigious Newbery Medal in 2005 for her book "Kira-Kira," making her one of the few Asian-American authors to receive this honor