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kaddish.com

📖 Overview

Larry is a secular Jew in Memphis who faces a dilemma when his Orthodox father dies. According to Jewish law, he must recite the mourner's Kaddish prayer daily for eleven months, but Larry has no intention of following through with this demanding ritual. He discovers kaddish.com, a website that connects mourners with religious scholars who will recite the prayer on their behalf. This arrangement allows Larry to transfer his filial duty to someone else through a transaction that sits at the intersection of ancient tradition and modern technology. Twenty years later, Larry has transformed into an Orthodox Jewish teacher in Brooklyn, now known as Shuli. His past decision about the Kaddish comes back to haunt him, setting him on a quest that challenges his current beliefs and identity. The novel explores questions of faith, obligation, and authenticity in the modern world. It examines how technology impacts religious practice and what it means to truly honor the dead while remaining true to oneself.

👀 Reviews

Readers appreciate the humor and wit in Englander's exploration of faith, family obligations, and Jewish traditions. Many note the book's accessibility to both Jewish and non-Jewish audiences, with clear explanations of customs woven naturally into the narrative. Readers highlight the book's brevity and quick pacing, with Amazon reviewer D. Wilding calling it "a fast, entertaining read that still manages to tackle deep questions." Common criticisms include an underdeveloped ending and characters that feel more like vehicles for ideas than fully-realized people. Several readers mention the premise is stronger than the execution. Ratings: Goodreads: 3.7/5 (2,800+ ratings) Amazon: 4.1/5 (180+ ratings) LibraryThing: 3.8/5 (90+ ratings) "The humor lands perfectly but the resolution feels rushed," notes Goodreads reviewer Sarah K. Multiple readers describe the book as a "clever concept" that would have benefited from a longer length to fully explore its themes.

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🤔 Interesting facts

🕯️ The novel explores the ritual of Kaddish, a Jewish mourning prayer traditionally recited by sons for deceased parents for 11 months—a practice dating back to the 13th century. 📚 Nathan Englander wrote much of this book while living in Madison, Wisconsin, where he served as a visiting professor at the University of Wisconsin. 🌐 The book's premise was inspired by actual websites that offer Kaddish prayer services for hire, a modern solution for Jewish families without sons or those unable to fulfill the daily prayer obligation. ✍️ The author drew from his own experience of leaving Orthodox Judaism, similar to the protagonist Larry, though Englander uniquely reversed the journey by having his character return to orthodoxy. 🏆 The novel received widespread acclaim and was named one of the best books of 2019 by multiple publications, including The Washington Post and Kirkus Reviews.