📖 Overview
Fifteen-year-old Feli must deal with her recently widowed mother's new interest in dating. The Austrian teenager wants her mother to find happiness again but struggles with the changes this brings to their previously stable household.
Her mother's quest for romance leads to a series of encounters with potential suitors, each bringing their own complications. Meanwhile, Feli navigates her own social life and relationships while trying to maintain control over the shifting family dynamics.
Through a mix of humor and realism, this novel explores the complexities of parent-child bonds during major life transitions. The story offers insight into how families adapt when traditional roles and relationships begin to transform.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this as a light-hearted family story with relatable mother-daughter dynamics. Multiple reviewers note the authentic portrayal of a teenager dealing with her mother's dating life.
Readers appreciated:
- The humorous tone and witty dialogue
- The realistic family relationships
- The Austrian cultural elements
- The protagonist's narrative voice
Common criticisms:
- Pacing drags in the middle sections
- Some cultural references don't translate well
- Secondary characters lack depth
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.6/5 (116 ratings)
Amazon DE: 4.2/5 (28 reviews)
Sample reader comments:
"Captures the mortification of having a dating parent" - Goodreads review
"Lost some charm in translation but still enjoyable" - Amazon review
"Too much focus on minor subplots" - Goodreads review
Note: Limited English language reviews available as this book was primarily published and reviewed in German-speaking markets.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔹 Christine Nöstlinger wrote over 150 books throughout her career and won the prestigious Hans Christian Andersen Medal in 1984 for her lasting contribution to children's literature.
🔹 The book, originally published in German as "Einen Vater hab ich auch," explores family dynamics during divorce and remarriage through a child's perspective - a groundbreaking topic for children's literature in the 1970s.
🔹 Nöstlinger's writing style often incorporated Viennese dialect and humor, making her books particularly beloved in Austria while tackling serious social issues.
🔹 The author's own experiences growing up in post-war Vienna heavily influenced her realistic portrayal of family life and social challenges in her works, including "Marrying Off Mother."
🔹 The book has been translated into multiple languages and is considered part of the "New Realism" movement in children's literature, which aimed to address real-life problems rather than fantasy scenarios.