📖 Overview
Gerald Early's memoir chronicles his experience raising two daughters in St. Louis during the 1980s-90s. The narrative follows his journey from their early childhood through adolescence.
Early examines his role as an African American father and academic navigating both family life and his career at Washington University. His daughters' involvement in figure skating becomes a central part of their upbringing and the family's shared experiences.
The book details the challenges and rewards of parenthood through specific moments and conversations between father and daughters. Early documents their development, education, and the complex dynamics of their changing relationship.
This memoir explores themes of identity, family bonds, and the intersection of race and parenting in America. The author's observations about fatherhood reflect broader questions about how parents shape their children's lives while being transformed themselves.
👀 Reviews
This seems to be a fairly obscure book with limited reader reviews available online. The few reviews indicate readers connect with Early's personal reflections on raising his daughters and navigating race, culture and family dynamics.
Readers appreciated:
- The honest, intimate look at parenting challenges
- Early's analysis of how race impacts family relationships
- His thoughtful observations about raising daughters as a Black father
Criticisms focused on:
- Writing style can be academic and dense at times
- Some felt certain sections meandered too much
Available ratings:
Goodreads: 3.9/5 (7 ratings, 1 review)
No ratings found on Amazon or other major review sites
The scarcity of reviews makes it difficult to draw broad conclusions about reader reception. Those who have reviewed it found the content valuable but note it requires focused reading due to the complex themes and scholarly writing style.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Gerald Early wrote this memoir about raising his two daughters while grappling with his own experiences of growing up without a father
📚 The book explores themes of race, class, and gender through the lens of African-American fatherhood in late 20th century America
👨👧👧 Early's daughters, Linnet and Rosalind, were named after characters from Shakespeare's works, reflecting his deep appreciation for literature
🎓 As a professor at Washington University in St. Louis, Early incorporated his academic expertise in American culture and African-American studies into his personal reflections on parenthood
📖 The memoir was published in 1994, during a period of increasing national discourse about the role of fathers in African-American families and the broader cultural conversation about family values