📖 Overview
Love, Death, and the Changing of the Seasons is a novel-in-sonnets that chronicles a year-long love affair between two women. The narrative follows their relationship from its passionate beginning through its evolution and challenges.
The book contains over 200 pages of sonnets, with most adhering to traditional formal structures while incorporating contemporary language and situations. Through these poems, Hacker documents the physical and emotional intensity of new love, along with the complexities of a relationship between two writers living in different cities.
The work moves through all four seasons, using weather and natural cycles as counterpoints to the human drama. Details of daily life in New York and Paris interweave with larger themes of desire, distance, and connection.
The sonnets explore how love transforms through time, examining the intersection of artistic creation, sexuality, and the ways relationships test our understanding of ourselves. This formal poetry sequence stands as both a personal document and a broader meditation on passion's place in human experience.
👀 Reviews
Readers highlight the raw emotional honesty and technical mastery of Hacker's sonnets chronicling a year-long lesbian relationship. They note how the poems capture both intimate moments and everyday details of life in Paris and New York.
Readers appreciate:
- The accessibility of the language despite complex formal structures
- The balance of eroticism and domesticity
- The portrayal of a relationship's full arc from passion to heartbreak
Common criticisms:
- Some find the 180+ sonnets repetitive
- A few readers say the explicit sexual content feels gratuitous
- The narrow focus on one relationship can feel limiting
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.2/5 (500+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.7/5 (30+ reviews)
Reader quote: "These sonnets do what contemporary poetry rarely attempts - they tell a complete story with technical precision while remaining deeply personal." - Goodreads reviewer
Another notes: "The food descriptions sometimes overshadow the relationship narrative." - Amazon reviewer
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What Is This Thing Called Love by Kim Addonizio The sonnets in this collection parse romantic relationships and desire through contemporary situations and frank observations.
Mean Time by Carol Ann Duffy These poems explore love, loss, and memory through structured verse forms that document relationships' beginnings and endings.
The Poet's Companion by Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux This book combines poetry examples and writing exercises that focus on crafting verses about intimate relationships and personal experience.
Fatal Interview by Edna St. Vincent Millay This sonnet sequence tracks the course of a love affair from inception to dissolution through formal verse structures.
🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Written entirely in sonnets, this novel-length poem sequence chronicles a year-long love affair between two women in Paris and New York
📚 Marilyn Hacker composed many of these poems on napkins while working as the manager of the legendary Parisian bookstore Shakespeare and Company
💝 The book masterfully blends formal poetic structure with contemporary, conversational language and explicit erotic content—a combination rarely seen in modern poetry
🎨 Through its 176 pages, the work captures not just romance but also the sensory details of city life, featuring vivid descriptions of food, weather, and urban landscapes in both Paris and Manhattan
🏆 Hacker, who won the National Book Award for her first collection "Presentation Piece," wrote this book at the height of her poetic powers in 1986, pushing boundaries of both form and content in LGBTQ+ literature