📖 Overview
For the Relief of Unbearable Urges is Nathan Englander's debut collection of nine short stories published in 1999. The collection earned multiple literary awards including the PEN/Malamud Award and the Sue Kaufman Prize for First Fiction.
The stories move between different Jewish worlds - from Hasidic communities in Brooklyn to Stalin's Russia to modern-day Jerusalem. Many explore the tension between religious obligation and human desire, including the title story about a Hasidic man given rabbinical permission to visit a prostitute.
Englander draws from both historical events and contemporary Jewish life, addressing subjects like faith, identity, tradition, and survival. The collection includes "The Twenty-seventh Man," based on Stalin's execution of Yiddish writers, and "The Gilgul of Park Avenue," about a non-Jewish man who believes he has received a Jewish soul.
The stories examine the complex intersection of the sacred and the secular, raising questions about how ancient traditions and modern realities coexist. Through diverse characters facing moral dilemmas, the collection explores the universal struggle between duty and individual needs.
👀 Reviews
Readers appreciate Englander's attention to detail in depicting Orthodox Jewish life and his ability to blend humor with serious themes. Many note his skill at creating memorable characters and weaving complex moral dilemmas into digestible stories.
Readers highlight "The Gilgul of Park Avenue" and "The Last One Way" as standout stories in the collection. Reviews often mention the author's command of tension and pacing.
Common criticisms include uneven quality across the stories, with some readers finding certain entries too long or meandering. Several reviews note that the Jewish cultural references can be difficult to follow without prior knowledge. A portion of readers describe the writing style as pretentious.
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.8/5 (3,900+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.1/5 (89 ratings)
LibraryThing: 3.9/5 (700+ ratings)
"The stories stay with you long after reading" appears in multiple reader reviews, while others describe the collection as "thought-provoking but occasionally inaccessible."
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🤔 Interesting facts
⭐ The title story was inspired by a real rabbinic ruling allowing Orthodox men to visit prostitutes under specific circumstances of "unbearable" marital situations
⭐ Nathan Englander grew up in an Orthodox Jewish family on Long Island but later became secular, giving him unique insight into both religious and secular Jewish perspectives
⭐ Several stories in the collection were influenced by Englander's experiences living in Jerusalem during the 1996-97 period of increased terrorist attacks
⭐ The book won the PEN/Malamud Award and the Sue Kaufman Prize for First Fiction from the American Academy of Arts and Letters in 2000
⭐ The story "The Twenty-Seventh Man" was adapted into a play that premiered at The Public Theater in New York City in 2012, featuring Ron Rifkin and Daniel London