Not That Sort of Girl

Not That Sort of Girl follows Rose Peel's life across nearly five decades of marriage in Southern England, beginning in the late 1930s. At nineteen, Rose chooses to marry the stable Ned Peel instead of her true love, the impoverished Mylo Cooper. Rose moves into Slepe, her husband's inherited country house, where she forms a deep attachment to the property despite her lukewarm feelings for Ned. The Second World War separates the couple, creating opportunities for Rose to pursue her connection with Mylo through clandestine meetings that continue throughout her marriage. After Ned's death, sixty-seven-year-old Rose must leave her beloved Slepe and confront the choices she made decades ago. Her hotel room becomes a space for reflection as she considers her next steps in life, finally free from the marriage vows that bound her for so long. The novel explores themes of duty versus passion, examining how societal expectations and personal promises shape the course of a life. Wesley's narrative considers the price of security and the nature of loyalty in marriage.

Readers note this book differs from Wesley's other novels in its darker tone and focus on class conflicts in 1940s England. Readers appreciated: - Complex female characters who defy societal expectations - Description of wartime village life and social customs - The romance elements avoid typical genre clichés - Detailed portrayals of British upper-class mannerisms Common criticisms: - Slow pacing in the first third - Some plot threads left unresolved - Supporting characters lack development - Too many characters introduced early on Ratings: Goodreads: 3.7/5 (482 ratings) Amazon UK: 4.1/5 (38 ratings) From reviews: "The protagonist's choices may frustrate modern readers but reflect the limitations women faced" - Goodreads reviewer "Takes time to get into but rewards patient reading" - Amazon UK review "The ending feels rushed after such careful character building" - LibraryThing review

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🌺 Mary Wesley didn't publish her first adult novel until age 71, making her literary career a remarkable late-life success story. 🏰 The novel's setting of Slepe is inspired by the grand country houses of Devon, England, where Wesley spent much of her own life. ⚔️ Like her protagonist Rose, Wesley experienced World War II firsthand, working in intelligence operations for the British military. 💑 The theme of choosing between practical marriage and passionate love was drawn from Wesley's own experiences - she married twice, first conventionally at a young age and later for love. 📚 The book's exploration of upper-middle-class British society in the mid-20th century is considered particularly authentic because Wesley herself was born into and lived among this social circle.