📖 Overview
Getting to Happy reunites readers with the four women from Waiting to Exhale, now navigating life's challenges in their late 40s and early 50s in Phoenix, Arizona. The story picks up 15 years after the original novel, following Savannah, Robin, Bernadine, and Gloria as they face new obstacles in their relationships, careers, and personal lives.
Each woman must confront unexpected changes and setbacks that force them to reassess their paths and choices. Their individual journeys include dealing with addiction, divorce, loss, and the complexities of raising children while maintaining careers and searching for fulfillment.
The women's enduring friendship serves as their foundation as they support each other through transitions and rebuilding. Their bond grows stronger as they navigate dating in midlife, career changes, family dynamics, and the search for personal identity beyond their established roles.
This sequel explores themes of resilience, self-discovery, and the ongoing pursuit of happiness in middle age. The narrative emphasizes how life's second acts can offer opportunities for renewal and growth, even after significant setbacks.
👀 Reviews
Readers found this follow-up to Waiting to Exhale less engaging than the original. Many noted the book felt rushed and disjointed compared to McMillan's earlier work.
What readers liked:
- Catching up with familiar characters after 15 years
- Realistic portrayal of women dealing with midlife challenges
- Raw emotional moments
- Messages about finding happiness later in life
What readers disliked:
- Choppy writing style with frequent POV shifts
- Too many tragic events packed into the plot
- Characters seemed less developed than in previous book
- Dialogue felt forced and unnatural
- Resolution seemed hurried
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.5/5 (13,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 3.8/5 (500+ ratings)
Common reader comments:
"Feels like it was written just to cash in on Exhale's success" - Goodreads reviewer
"The characters lost their spark" - Amazon reviewer
"Too much misery and not enough of the humor that made the first book special" - Barnes & Noble reviewer
📚 Similar books
Waiting to Exhale by Terry McMillan
The original novel follows these same four women in their 30s as they navigate relationships and life challenges with the same strong friendship dynamic.
The Interruption of Everything by Terry McMillan A woman in her mid-40s reassesses her life and marriage while dealing with family obligations and delayed dreams.
It's Not All Downhill From Here by Terry McMillan The story centers on a 68-year-old woman and her close friends who help each other through life changes and unexpected challenges.
The Care and Feeding of Ravenously Hungry Girls by Anissa Gray Three sisters must confront their past and present relationships while supporting each other through a family crisis.
An American Marriage by Tayari Jones The book explores the complexities of relationships, personal identity, and life's unexpected turns through the story of a couple facing a devastating setback.
The Interruption of Everything by Terry McMillan A woman in her mid-40s reassesses her life and marriage while dealing with family obligations and delayed dreams.
It's Not All Downhill From Here by Terry McMillan The story centers on a 68-year-old woman and her close friends who help each other through life changes and unexpected challenges.
The Care and Feeding of Ravenously Hungry Girls by Anissa Gray Three sisters must confront their past and present relationships while supporting each other through a family crisis.
An American Marriage by Tayari Jones The book explores the complexities of relationships, personal identity, and life's unexpected turns through the story of a couple facing a devastating setback.
🤔 Interesting facts
🔸 The film version of "Waiting to Exhale" (1995), the prequel to this book, starred Whitney Houston and Angela Bassett, grossing over $81 million worldwide.
🔸 Author Terry McMillan's personal divorce experience from Jonathan Plummer, who later came out as gay, influenced themes of unexpected life changes in "Getting to Happy."
🔸 Phoenix, Arizona, where the book is set, experienced significant demographic changes between the two books' timelines (1990s-2000s), with the African-American population growing by approximately 40%.
🔸 The book's release in 2010 marked McMillan's triumphant return to these beloved characters after a 15-year gap, addressing mature themes that resonated with the original readers who had aged alongside the characters.
🔸 McMillan wrote parts of the book while teaching creative writing at the University of Wyoming, incorporating feedback from her students about how middle-aged women are portrayed in contemporary fiction.