📖 Overview
Every You, Every Me combines photography and text to tell the story of Evan, a teenager grappling with the psychological breakdown of his best friend Ariel. Someone begins leaving mysterious photographs for Evan to find, forcing him to confront uncomfortable truths about his relationship with Ariel.
The novel unfolds through Evan's first-person narration addressed directly to the absent Ariel, with struck-through text revealing his suppressed thoughts and feelings. Jonathan Farmer's black and white photographs appear throughout the narrative, serving as both story elements and visual accompaniment to Evan's emotional journey.
The story explores guilt, memory, and the different versions of ourselves we present to different people. Through its unique format and psychological focus, the book examines how well we can truly know another person - or ourselves.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this book as an experimental psychological thriller that combines photography with text. Many note the unique format enhances the story's unsettling atmosphere.
Readers appreciated:
- The raw portrayal of grief and mental health
- Integration of black and white photos throughout
- The unreliable narrator perspective
- Short chapters that maintain suspense
Common criticisms:
- Confusing narrative structure
- Strike-through text becomes tiresome
- Plot feels incomplete or unresolved
- Some found the photos distracting rather than enhancing
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.7/5 (8,900+ ratings)
Amazon: 3.9/5 (80+ ratings)
Several reviewers commented the book reads more like an art project than a novel. One reader noted: "The crossed-out thoughts add another layer to understanding the protagonist's mental state." Another wrote: "The experimental style sacrifices clarity for atmosphere."
Multiple reviews mention the book requires patience and close attention to piece together the narrative.
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🤔 Interesting facts
⚡ The novel pairs with actual photographs by Jonathan Farmer, making it one of the first YA books to fully integrate photography as a storytelling device
🎯 David Levithan wrote this book by receiving the photographs first, then crafting the story around them - a reverse process from typical photo-illustrated books
🧠 The book's exploration of mental health themes was partly inspired by the author's conversations with teenagers during his visits to high schools as an editor and writer
📚 The title "Every You, Every Me" comes from a Placebo song, reflecting Levithan's tendency to find inspiration in music for his work
📸 The black-and-white photographs in the book were deliberately taken to appear amateur and mysterious, mimicking the kind of candid shots a high school student might take