📖 Overview
Priestdaddy is a memoir by Patricia Lockwood that chronicles her experience as the daughter of a Catholic priest - a rare situation made possible by her father's conversion from Lutheran ministry. The book, published in 2017, earned multiple accolades including the Thurber Prize for American Humor and placement on The New York Times' list of 50 Best Memoirs of the Past 50 Years.
Financial circumstances force Lockwood and her husband to move back into her father's rectory as adults, creating an opportunity to examine her unconventional upbringing through new eyes. The narrative follows this period of return while weaving in memories of her childhood, painting a portrait of her eccentric family life and her father's distinctive personality.
The memoir combines elements of religious exploration, family dynamics, and personal growth, transforming specific experiences into universal insights about faith, identity, and the complex bonds between parents and children. Its success stems from Lockwood's ability to find humor in serious subjects while maintaining respect for the core elements of family and belief that shape her story.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this memoir as eccentric, funny, and lyrical. Online reviews emphasize Lockwood's unique voice and unconventional family stories.
Readers praised:
- Raw, poetic writing style
- Dark humor and absurdist observations
- Complex father-daughter relationship
- Memorable scenes and vivid descriptions
"Her metaphors are unlike anything I've read before" - Goodreads reviewer
"Made me laugh out loud on public transit" - Amazon review
Common criticisms:
- Meandering narrative structure
- Dense, overwrought prose in places
- Some found the humor forced
- Religious themes can feel inaccessible
"Gets lost in its own cleverness" - Goodreads review
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.0/5 (24,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.3/5 (850+ ratings)
NPR Readers' Choice: #7 Best Book of 2017
New York Times Notable Book 2017
Guardian Best Book of 2017
Kirkus Prize Finalist
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔸 Prior to becoming a memoirist, Patricia Lockwood gained fame as the "Poet Laureate of Twitter" for her viral tweets and surreal online presence.
🔸 The Catholic Church allows married Lutheran ministers who convert to Catholicism to become priests while remaining married - a special provision that has existed since the 1980s.
🔸 Lockwood's father became famous for playing electric guitar during Mass and watching action movies in his underwear, details that become central to the memoir's portrayal of his eccentric personality.
🔸 The book's title "Priestdaddy" was inspired by Lockwood's childhood nickname for her father, combining his religious role with his parental one.
🔸 The memoir received widespread critical acclaim, winning the 2018 Thurber Prize for American Humor and being named one of the New York Times' 100 Notable Books of 2017.