📖 Overview
The Leavers follows eleven-year-old Deming Guo, whose mother Polly vanishes without warning from their Bronx apartment. After his mother's disappearance, Deming is adopted by white suburban professors who rename him Daniel Wilkinson and move him away from the city life he knew.
The narrative shifts between Deming/Daniel's story of growing up caught between two identities and his birth mother Polly's account of her life as an undocumented Chinese immigrant in New York. Their parallel journeys span years and continents, from New York to China, as each character navigates loss and adaptation.
Set against the backdrop of immigration policy and cross-cultural adoption, The Leavers explores questions of identity, belonging, and what makes a family. Ko's debut novel examines the forces that pull people apart and the bonds that persist despite separation, while raising questions about assimilation and the American dream.
👀 Reviews
Readers found the book illuminating on immigration, adoption, and cultural identity. Many connected emotionally with the complex mother-son relationship and appreciated the dual perspectives showing how trauma affects both characters.
Positive reviews highlight:
- Authentic portrayal of immigrant experiences
- Strong character development
- Nuanced handling of difficult themes
- Cultural details of both China and New York
Common criticisms:
- Slow pacing in middle sections
- Time jumps that create confusion
- Limited resolution of certain plotlines
- Some found the son's sections less compelling than the mother's
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.9/5 (23,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.2/5 (1,100+ ratings)
Book Browse: 4.5/5 (89 ratings)
"Ko makes you feel every choice, every moment of grief and joy," wrote one Amazon reviewer. Others noted the "unflinching look at flawed characters making impossible decisions." Some readers struggled with the "meandering narrative" and "uneven pacing."
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔷 The novel won the 2016 PEN/Bellwether Prize for Socially Engaged Fiction, a prestigious award founded by Barbara Kingsolver to recognize unpublished works addressing issues of social justice.
🔷 Author Lisa Ko was inspired to write the book after reading news stories about immigrant parents being separated from their children due to detention or deportation.
🔷 The character of Polly/Peilan was partly influenced by the experiences of real-life undocumented Chinese immigrants working in nail salons and restaurants in New York City.
🔷 Ko spent nearly a decade researching and writing The Leavers, including multiple trips to China and extensive interviews with transnational adoptees and immigrant families.
🔷 The book's portrayal of cross-cultural adoption reflects a significant reality: China has been the leading source country for international adoptions to the United States since the 1990s.