📖 Overview
Five schoolchildren discover an old diary during an overnight stay at a mysterious mansion. The diary, written by a boy who ran away from his stepfather, prompts them to share their own experiences with divorce, separation, and stepfamilies.
Each child reveals personal struggles with changing family dynamics. Their stories span complex relationships with stepparents and stepsiblings, attempts to maintain connections with absent parents, and the challenge of adapting to new family structures.
The novel chronicles how each child navigates their unique situation differently - some with resistance, others with reluctant acceptance. Through their conversations, they begin to process their feelings about their transformed families.
The book explores universal themes of family bonds, acceptance, and the ways children cope with major life changes. It presents divorce and family restructuring through an honest lens that acknowledges both the difficulties and possibilities of blended families.
👀 Reviews
Readers connect with how the book portrays children dealing with family changes and stepparents. Many reviews note that the story helps kids understand they're not alone in navigating divorced parents and blended families.
Readers appreciated:
- The authentic child perspectives and emotions
- Use of multiple narratives to show different family situations
- How it encourages empathy and discussion
- Age-appropriate handling of complex topics
Common criticisms:
- Some found the frame story unnecessary
- A few felt the ending was abrupt
- Parents noted it may be too mature for kids under 10
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.9/5 (2,100+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.3/5 (80+ ratings)
"Really helped my daughter understand her feelings about our new family situation" - Amazon reviewer
"The characters' struggles feel genuine and relatable" - Goodreads review
"Perfect for classroom discussions about modern families" - Teacher review on curriculum site
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Fish in a Tree by Lynda Mullaly Hunt A middle-grade novel that explores the impact of supportive adults and understanding peers on a child dealing with learning differences and family transitions.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔸 Nearly one-third of children in the UK live in blended families or stepfamilies, making the book's themes deeply relevant to its target audience.
🔸 Anne Fine served as the Children's Laureate from 2001-2003, and is also known for writing "Madame Doubtfire," which inspired the famous film "Mrs. Doubtfire."
🔸 The Victorian diary found in the book was inspired by real 19th-century accounts of children coping with stepfamilies during an era when remarriage often followed the death of a spouse.
🔸 The book has been used in schools across multiple countries as a tool for discussing family changes and emotional literacy with students.
🔸 The Old House setting in the novel was partially inspired by Crewe Hall in Cheshire, England, a Jacobean mansion with a rich history dating back to 1636.