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Alexander, Who's Not (Do You Hear Me? I Mean It!) Going to Move

📖 Overview

Alexander is facing an unwanted change - his father has accepted a job in a different city, meaning the whole family must relocate. He announces his refusal to move and makes it clear he intends to stay exactly where he is. Through conversations with his family members, Alexander expresses his concerns about leaving behind everything familiar - his best friend, his soccer team, and even his favorite climbing tree. He develops a determined plan to avoid the upcoming move. As Alexander processes his feelings about the situation, the story captures a universal childhood experience of dealing with circumstances beyond one's control. The narrative speaks to themes of change, adaptation, and the emotional challenges children face when confronted with major life transitions.

👀 Reviews

Parents and children relate to Alexander's emotional struggle with moving homes. The book helps families discuss change and cope with relocation anxiety. Readers appreciate: - Realistic portrayal of a child's perspective and feelings - Humorous moments that lighten the serious topic - Illustrations that capture Alexander's range of emotions - Usefulness as a tool for starting conversations about moving Common criticisms: - Some find Alexander's attitude too negative - A few readers note the resolution feels rushed - The story may reinforce defiant behavior, according to some parents Ratings: Goodreads: 4.2/5 (2,300+ ratings) Amazon: 4.7/5 (900+ ratings) "Helped my 4-year-old process our upcoming move," writes one Amazon reviewer. "The book validated his feelings." A Goodreads reviewer notes: "Great for showing kids it's normal to feel upset about moving, though I wish it showed more positive aspects of change."

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The Leaving Morning by Angela Johnson A child observes the details of moving day while coming to terms with leaving a beloved home behind.

🤔 Interesting facts

🏠 The book is part of a beloved series featuring Alexander, with other titles including "Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day" and "Alexander, Who Used to Be Rich Last Sunday" 📚 Author Judith Viorst wrote this book based on her own son Alexander's experiences when their family had to move from New York City to Washington, D.C. 🎭 The story captures common childhood emotions about moving, including fear, anger, and resistance, making it a helpful resource for families going through relocation ✍️ Judith Viorst has written over 40 books, including adult poetry collections and psychological studies, but is best known for her Alexander series 🏆 The Alexander series has been adapted into various formats, including a HBO animated special and a 2014 feature film starring Steve Carell and Jennifer Garner (though this particular moving story wasn't part of the film)