📖 Overview
A young girl faces a constant barrage of questions about where she's from, with others making assumptions about her identity based on her appearance. When she becomes frustrated by these interactions, she turns to her abuelo (grandfather) for guidance.
Her wise abuelo responds by taking her on a journey through their family history, sharing stories of their ancestors and their origins. The narrative traces their roots through multiple continents and cultures, encompassing both struggles and triumphs.
Through simple yet impactful prose and vibrant illustrations by Jaime Kim, this picture book addresses complex topics of identity, belonging, and cultural heritage. The story presents an affirming message about embracing one's multifaceted background while challenging narrow definitions of home and origin.
👀 Reviews
Readers appreciate how this picture book addresses questions about identity and belonging that many children face. Parents and teachers note it helps start conversations with kids about heritage, family history, and handling uncomfortable questions about their background.
Positives from reviews:
- Illustrations show diverse characters and vibrant cultural elements
- Grandmother's explanation resonates with multiracial/multicultural families
- Works well as a classroom read-aloud for grades K-3
- Spanish words integrated naturally into text
Common criticisms:
- Some found the message too abstract for young children
- A few readers wanted more specific cultural details
- Length feels short for the price point
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.26/5 (2,100+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.8/5 (1,200+ ratings)
"Perfect for helping my daughter understand her mixed heritage," noted one parent reviewer. A teacher commented, "Students immediately connected with the main character's experience of being asked where they're really from."
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌎 Author Yamile Saied Méndez drew inspiration from her own experiences as an Argentine-American, often facing questions about her identity and belonging.
🌺 The book's illustrator, Jaime Kim, was born in South Korea and now lives in North Carolina, bringing her own multicultural perspective to the story's artwork.
🌍 The Spanish edition of the book, "¿De dónde eres?", was also written by Méndez herself, rather than being translated by another author.
👵 The grandmother character in the story serves as a bridge between generations, helping the young protagonist understand that her identity is rooted in both her family's history and her present life.
🏆 The book won the 2020 Américas Award for Children's and Young Adult Literature, which recognizes works that authentically portray Latin America, the Caribbean, or Latinos in the United States.