📖 Overview
Sex and the City follows the lives of New York City women navigating romance, careers, and friendships in the 1990s. The book is a collection of essays based on Candace Bushnell's column for The New York Observer.
The narrative centers on the dating experiences of the author's alter ego, Carrie Bradshaw, and her circle of female friends. Through their stories, readers get an inside view of Manhattan's social scene, from exclusive clubs to high-powered offices.
The men in these women's lives range from investment bankers to artists, creating a panorama of relationships in New York's upper echelons. Bushnell documents the mating habits and social codes of what she terms "toxic bachelors," "modelizers," and other urban species.
The book serves as both social commentary and cultural artifact, capturing a specific moment in New York City's evolution when traditional expectations about marriage collided with new sexual politics. Its observations about power, status, and gender dynamics remain relevant to contemporary dating culture.
👀 Reviews
Readers report the book differs significantly from the TV show, with a colder, more cynical tone and less likeable characters. Many note the book reads as a collection of loosely connected newspaper columns rather than a cohesive novel.
Readers appreciate:
- Raw, honest portrayal of dating in 1990s Manhattan
- Sharp social commentary and observations
- Clean, journalistic writing style
Common criticisms:
- Characters lack depth and development
- Disjointed narrative structure
- Missing the warmth and friendship focus of the TV series
"The book feels like eavesdropping on conversations at exclusive parties," notes one Amazon reviewer. Multiple readers describe the tone as "detached" and "anthropological."
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.2/5 (72,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 3.7/5 (1,200+ ratings)
LibraryThing: 3.1/5 (300+ ratings)
Some readers recommend viewing it as social commentary rather than expecting a traditional novel format.
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The Devil Wears Prada by Lauren Weisberger A young journalist navigates Manhattan's fashion magazine industry while dealing with relationship drama and career pressures.
Bergdorf Blondes by Plum Sykes A socialite columnist documents her search for the perfect husband among Manhattan's elite while navigating New York's social scene.
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Valley of the Dolls by Jacqueline Susann Three women chase success in New York City's entertainment industry while confronting love, fame, and personal demons.
🤔 Interesting facts
🗽 Before becoming a book, Sex and the City began as Candace Bushnell's dating column in The New York Observer in 1994, where she wrote under the alter ego "Carrie Bradshaw."
💫 The book is a compilation of real stories and experiences from Bushnell's own life in Manhattan, including her friendships with New York's elite and her romantic encounters in the city's dating scene.
👠 Carrie Bradshaw's famous shoe obsession wasn't part of the original book - this character trait was added later for the TV series.
📝 The book's structure is notably different from the TV show, reading more like interconnected essays than a traditional novel, and featuring a grittier, more cynical tone than its television adaptation.
🌃 Many real New York City establishments and events are featured in the book, including Bowery Bar, Club USA, and parties at the Manhattan File - providing an authentic snapshot of 1990s New York nightlife.