📖 Overview
Meri and Nathan move into a new duplex in New England, where Meri becomes fascinated by their neighbor Delia Naughton, wife of former senator Tom Naughton. As Meri settles into marriage and pregnancy, she develops an increasing preoccupation with Delia's life and complex marriage to the charismatic but unfaithful Tom.
The narrative alternates between Meri's perspective and Delia's private thoughts, revealing the parallel journeys of two women at different stages of marriage. Delia has crafted an independent life while maintaining an unconventional relationship with Tom, while Meri navigates the early challenges of commitment and identity within marriage.
Through the lens of these two marriages, Miller examines how women balance intimacy, independence, and compromise. The story illuminates the boundaries between public and private life, and questions what it means to forgive, to maintain dignity, and to find contentment on one's own terms.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this as a slow-burning character study that examines marriage, aging, and female relationships. Many note the realistic portrayal of complex relationships and domestic life.
Readers appreciated:
- Deep character development, particularly of Meri and Delia
- Authentic depiction of marriage struggles
- Strong sense of place and detail
- Nuanced exploration of forgiveness
Common criticisms:
- Pacing too slow for some readers
- Ending felt abrupt and unsatisfying
- Some found Meri's character unsympathetic
- Middle section drags with excessive detail
One reader noted: "Miller excels at showing how marriages evolve over decades, but the resolution left me cold."
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.4/5 (22,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 3.7/5 (300+ ratings)
LibraryThing: 3.5/5 (400+ ratings)
Most negative reviews focus on the ending, with readers expressing frustration at the characters' final choices and lack of resolution.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔹 Sue Miller drew inspiration for the novel's themes of caregiving and dementia from her personal experience caring for her father, who suffered from Alzheimer's disease.
🔹 The book explores the complex aftermath of President Bill Clinton's affair with Monica Lewinsky through a parallel fictional story, examining public versus private betrayals in marriage.
🔹 The novel's structure alternates between two time periods – the 1970s and the 1990s – reflecting how past decisions echo through decades of the characters' lives.
🔹 Author Sue Miller spent three years researching the lives of political wives and their unique experiences of maintaining public personas while dealing with private marital challenges.
🔹 The book's portrayal of the Senator's stroke recovery was informed by Miller's consultation with medical professionals to accurately depict the physical and emotional impacts of stroke rehabilitation.