Book

It Feels Good to be Yourself

by Theresa Thorn

📖 Overview

This picture book introduces gender identity concepts to young readers through clear explanations and illustrations. A group of child characters demonstrate different ways people experience and express their gender. The text breaks down terminology like cisgender and transgender into accessible language for children. Colorful artwork by Noah Grigni shows diverse characters and families throughout the story. Simple examples and scenarios help normalize conversations about gender identity and expression. The narrative maintains a tone of acceptance while explaining that gender exists on a spectrum rather than in rigid categories. At its core, this book promotes understanding and celebration of individual identity while emphasizing that there is no single "right" way to be yourself. The messages of self-acceptance and respect for others' gender journeys make this an important resource for families and classrooms.

👀 Reviews

Readers describe this children's book as clear and accessible for explaining gender identity concepts to young kids. Parents note it works well for ages 4-8. Liked: - Simple explanations without being oversimplified - Inclusive illustrations showing diverse bodies, skin tones, and gender expressions - Gentle, affirming tone for transgender and nonbinary children - Helpful glossary and discussion guide for parents Disliked: - Some found it too complex for very young children - A few readers wanted more scientific/biological context - Conservative parents objected to the topic for children Ratings: Goodreads: 4.44/5 (2,800+ ratings) Amazon: 4.8/5 (1,900+ ratings) Sample review: "This book gave my 5-year-old the language to express their own gender identity feelings. The pictures kept them engaged while tackling big concepts in kid-friendly ways." - Goodreads reviewer "Perfect balance between being direct about gender while keeping a warm, playful tone" - School Library Journal

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🤔 Interesting facts

🌟 Author Theresa Thorn wrote this book inspired by her own child's gender identity journey, making it deeply personal and authentic. 🎨 The book's illustrator, Noah Grigni, is a transgender artist who brings authenticity to the artwork through personal experience with gender identity. 📚 Published in 2019, it was one of the first picture books to explain non-binary and transgender identities to young children in clear, accessible language. 🌈 The story features four different characters who each express gender differently, helping children understand there's no single "right way" to experience gender. 🏆 The book has been recognized by the American Library Association's Rainbow Book List and is frequently recommended by LGBTQ+ organizations for families and educators.