📖 Overview
Taylor builds a tower of blocks that gets knocked down, leading to feelings of anger and sadness. Various animals approach Taylor with different suggestions for how to handle these emotions.
Each animal represents a distinct way of processing difficult feelings, from getting mad to making plans. Taylor responds differently to each animal's approach.
A rabbit arrives and stays with Taylor through the emotional journey, demonstrating patience and presence without trying to fix the situation.
This picture book explores themes of grief, emotional processing, and the power of supportive listening - showing that sometimes the best comfort comes from quiet companionship rather than active solutions.
👀 Reviews
Readers highlight this book's approach to processing emotions and grief through listening rather than fixing. Parents and educators note its effectiveness in teaching children about empathy and emotional support.
Readers appreciated:
- Simple, clear illustrations that convey emotion
- Message about being present without trying to solve problems
- Works well for toddlers through early elementary ages
- Helps adults model better responses to children's feelings
Common criticisms:
- Some found it too basic or short for the price
- A few mentioned their children didn't engage with the story
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.4/5 (5,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.8/5 (3,900+ ratings)
"This book taught me as much as it taught my child," noted one parent reviewer. A teacher commented, "Perfect for showing students how to be a good friend."
Barnes & Noble: 4.9/5 (240+ ratings)
Book Depository: 4.5/5 (180+ ratings)
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Cori Doerrfeld created this tender story after observing how her own children processed difficult emotions differently from each other.
🐰 The author chose a rabbit as the listening character because rabbits are naturally quiet and still, making them perfect symbols for peaceful presence.
📚 The book has been translated into multiple languages and is used by counselors and therapists to teach emotional intelligence to young children.
🎨 Each animal in the story represents a different way adults sometimes try to help children process emotions - the bear wants to shout about it, the hyena wants to laugh it off.
💫 The story was partly inspired by Mr. Rogers' famous quote about looking for the helpers in scary times, but focuses instead on the power of simply being present.