📖 Overview
Izzy Crawford and her family have moved frequently since her father was killed in Iraq, finally settling in a mobile home park in Virginia. At her private school on scholarship, she keeps her home life private while growing close to her new friend Roz and developing feelings for Roz's cousin Sam, who comes from a wealthy family.
As Izzy's mother works toward their dream of a Habitat for Humanity house, Izzy navigates complex relationships at school and at home. Her Puerto Rican heritage, socioeconomic status, and personal losses shape her experiences as she tries to reconcile different parts of her identity and life.
The story explores grief, family bonds, class differences, and the meaning of home. Through Izzy's perspective, readers witness how friendship, first love, and community support can help reshape understanding of belonging and self-worth.
👀 Reviews
Readers commend the authentic portrayal of grief, family dynamics, and cultural identity. Many note the realistic depiction of teenage life and social class differences. The romance subplot receives praise for avoiding common YA tropes.
Specific praise focuses on:
- Natural dialogue between characters
- Complex mother-daughter relationship
- Integration of Filipino-American culture
- Balanced handling of serious themes and lighter moments
Common criticisms:
- Slow pacing in the first third
- Some plot points feel predictable
- Secondary characters need more development
- Limited exploration of the father's military background
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.0/5 (2,500+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.5/5 (100+ ratings)
Kirkus Reviews: Starred Review
One reader notes: "The main character's struggle with identity and social status feels genuine rather than forced." Another mentions: "The family dynamics ring true, especially between siblings."
Book review blog ratings average 8/10 across multiple sites.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🏡 The book explores themes of class differences through housing, inspired by the author's volunteer work with Habitat for Humanity, an organization that builds homes for families in need.
📚 Maria Padian drew from her own experience of being half-Irish, half-Mexican to create the protagonist Izzy's mixed cultural background.
🎭 The book's title has dual meaning - referring both to the physical construction of a house and the emotional journey of building relationships and identity.
🏆 "How to Build a Heart" received a starred review from Kirkus Reviews and was named one of Bank Street College of Education's Best Children's Books of the Year.
🎵 The author incorporated music throughout the novel, including classical pieces performed by the character Sam, to highlight how art connects people across social boundaries.