📖 Overview
This Momentary Marriage presents a biblical perspective on Christian marriage through theological examination and practical guidance. John Piper examines marriage as a covenant relationship designed to reflect Christ's relationship with the church.
Piper addresses core aspects of marriage including roles, intimacy, singleness, and divorce through analysis of scripture passages and real-world applications. The book covers both the joys and challenges of marriage while maintaining focus on its ultimate spiritual purpose.
Through detailed biblical exposition and pastoral wisdom, Piper demonstrates how marriage serves as a temporary earthly picture of eternal spiritual truths. His treatment provides a framework for understanding marriage as meaningful but not ultimate, pointing to deeper theological realities about God's relationship with His people.
👀 Reviews
Readers emphasize this book's focus on marriage as a picture of Christ's relationship with the church, rather than personal fulfillment. Many appreciate Piper's biblical foundation and theological depth in addressing divorce, singleness, and marriage roles.
Liked:
- Clear biblical references and scriptural basis
- Coverage of difficult topics like divorce and remarriage
- Equal treatment of both marriage and singleness
- Practical applications alongside theological concepts
Disliked:
- Writing style can be dense and academic
- Some readers found it too theoretical rather than practical
- Several note disagreement with Piper's complementarian views
- Some felt it focused too heavily on theology over relationships
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.3/5 (2,900+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.7/5 (300+ ratings)
Common reader comment: "Changed my perspective on marriage's purpose being God's glory rather than personal happiness" - appears in various forms across multiple reviews.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔹 Though John Piper wrote this book after 40 years of marriage to his wife Noël, he deliberately chose not to include personal anecdotes from their relationship, focusing instead on biblical teachings about marriage.
🔹 The book's title comes from Jesus' teaching that there will be no marriage in heaven (Matthew 22:30), emphasizing marriage as a temporary, earthly picture of Christ's relationship with the church.
🔹 The author donated all royalties from this book to Desiring God Ministries, a non-profit organization he founded that provides most of its resources free of charge.
🔹 The book challenges popular marriage self-help approaches by arguing that the ultimate purpose of marriage isn't personal happiness but rather displaying the covenant-keeping love between Christ and his people.
🔹 When writing about divorce, Piper took the controversial position that remarriage while a former spouse is still living is biblically forbidden, though this view differs from many mainstream Protestant teachings.