My Name Is Why

My Name Is Why chronicles Lemn Sissay's childhood and youth spent in the British foster care system in the 1960s and 1970s. The memoir incorporates official documents from his care files alongside his own memories and reflections. Sissay reconstructs his early years through social workers' reports, letters, and institutional records that he finally gained access to as an adult. His account moves between past experiences and present-day discoveries as he pieces together the truth about his identity and family history. The narrative follows his journey through various foster homes and institutions in Lancashire, documenting both personal relationships and systemic challenges. Sissay became a poet and writer despite the obstacles he faced in the care system. This memoir explores themes of identity, belonging, and the power of uncovering hidden truths. The contrast between institutional documentation and lived experience raises questions about whose stories get told and how.

Readers connect deeply with Sissay's raw emotional honesty and his integration of official documents alongside personal memories. Many note the impact of seeing bureaucratic paperwork contrasted with the human experience behind it. Reviewers appreciate: - Clear, poetic writing style that remains grounded - Balanced tone despite difficult subject matter - Effective structure alternating between past and present Common criticisms: - Some sections feel repetitive - A few readers wanted more details about his adult life - Documentation excerpts interrupt narrative flow for some Ratings: Goodreads: 4.3/5 (6,800+ ratings) Amazon UK: 4.6/5 (2,200+ ratings) Amazon US: 4.5/5 (400+ ratings) Reader quote: "The power is in how matter-of-fact he is. No melodrama needed - the stark facts speak volumes." - Goodreads reviewer Multiple readers noted finishing the book in one sitting, unable to put it down.

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🔹 Lemn Sissay was one of the first Black writers to receive an MBE for services to literature, and in 2019 was awarded the PEN Pinter Prize for his fierce commitment to truth and advocacy. 🔹 The author's birth name was Norman Greenwood, given to him by his foster family, but at age 18 he discovered his birth name was Lemn Sissay, meaning 'Why' in Amharic (Ethiopian language). 🔹 The book incorporates actual documents from Sissay's social services file, which he had to fight for 30 years to obtain, revealing the systematic failures in Britain's care system. 🔹 While in care, Sissay wrote his first poetry book at age 21 from a youth hostel in Manchester, publishing it himself and selling copies on the streets. 🔹 The memoir was written in response to the exact documents shown within it, creating a powerful dialogue between institutional records and personal memory that spans three decades of the author's life.