📖 Overview
Selected Poems compiles works from Sharon Olds' first seven books of poetry, spanning from 1980 through 2002. The collection presents Olds' signature style of intimate, autobiographical verse that centers on family relationships, sexuality, and the female body.
The poems move chronologically through different life stages and experiences, from childhood memories to parenthood to aging. Olds writes with precision about both physical and emotional landscapes, documenting personal watershed moments alongside quiet domestic scenes.
Many pieces focus on the poet's relationships with her parents, children, and romantic partners, while others address broader social and political themes. The collection maintains Olds' characteristic straightforward language and visceral imagery throughout.
These poems explore universal human experiences through a deeply personal lens, examining how family bonds, trauma, desire, and healing shape individual identity. Through raw honesty and careful observation, Olds transforms everyday moments into revelations about power, love, and survival.
👀 Reviews
Readers value Olds' raw honesty and unflinching exploration of family relationships, sexuality, and personal trauma. Many note her ability to transform uncomfortable subjects into compelling poetry through precise imagery and emotional depth.
Common praise focuses on poems about her father ("Saturn," "The Race") and motherhood ("The Promise"). Readers connect with her direct language and intimate details, with one calling her work "visceral truth-telling without pretension."
Critics find some poems too graphic or self-indulgent. Several readers mention discomfort with explicit sexual content and what they view as excessive focus on the body. A few note that similar themes and imagery become repetitive across the collection.
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.2/5 (2,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.7/5 (90+ ratings)
LibraryThing: 4.1/5 (300+ ratings)
"These poems punch you in the gut," writes one Goodreads reviewer, while another states "her confessional style crosses into TMI territory too often."
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Rich's collection explores female identity and power through intimate personal narratives that mirror Olds' fearless examination of family dynamics and sexuality.
Red Bird by Mary Oliver Oliver's poems connect the natural world to human experiences of love and loss with the same raw honesty found in Olds' work.
What the Living Do by Marie Howe Howe's poems confront grief, family relationships, and bodily experience with the direct, unflinching style characteristic of Olds' poetry.
Life on Mars by Tracy K. Smith Smith's collection combines personal history with larger cultural narratives in a confessional style that echoes Olds' approach to family and memory.
The Kingdom of Ordinary Time by Marie Howe Hough examines domestic life and physical existence through precise, corporeal imagery that shares Olds' attention to body and relationship dynamics.
Red Bird by Mary Oliver Oliver's poems connect the natural world to human experiences of love and loss with the same raw honesty found in Olds' work.
What the Living Do by Marie Howe Howe's poems confront grief, family relationships, and bodily experience with the direct, unflinching style characteristic of Olds' poetry.
Life on Mars by Tracy K. Smith Smith's collection combines personal history with larger cultural narratives in a confessional style that echoes Olds' approach to family and memory.
The Kingdom of Ordinary Time by Marie Howe Hough examines domestic life and physical existence through precise, corporeal imagery that shares Olds' attention to body and relationship dynamics.
🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Sharon Olds waited until after her parents passed away to publish many of her most personal poems about her difficult childhood and family dynamics
🌟 The collection includes poems from "The Father," which chronicles her father's death from cancer with such intimate detail that it revolutionized how death and illness were portrayed in contemporary poetry
🌟 Olds was the first American woman to win the T.S. Eliot Prize for Poetry (2012) for her collection "Stag's Leap," several poems from which appear in this selection
🌟 Though her work often focuses on deeply personal topics like sexuality, childbirth, and family trauma, Olds was New York's State Poet Laureate from 1998-2000 and taught at NYU for over 30 years
🌟 In 2003, Olds declined an invitation from First Lady Laura Bush to speak at the National Book Festival, writing in an open letter that she could not "break bread with the person who represents the administration" due to her opposition to the Iraq War