📖 Overview
Love with a Chance of Drowning chronicles Torre DeRoche's journey from fearful landlubber to ocean sailor. After meeting a charming Argentinian man in a San Francisco bar, DeRoche faces a decision between returning to her stable life in Australia or joining him on a Pacific crossing aboard a small sailboat.
DeRoche confronts her intense fear of deep water and the unknown as she learns to navigate both a romantic relationship and life at sea. The memoir details the day-to-day realities of ocean sailing, from violent storms to mechanical failures to the simple challenges of living in a tiny floating space.
The narrative spans multiple locations across the Pacific, including remote tropical islands and bustling ports. DeRoche documents her evolving relationship with sailing, fear, and love while navigating between civilization and complete isolation.
This memoir explores the tension between security and adventure, considering what people risk for love and personal growth. The story raises questions about how fear can both protect and limit, and whether true safety lies in avoiding danger or learning to face it.
👀 Reviews
Readers describe this memoir as honest and relatable, particularly connecting with Torre's journey from fear to courage. Many note her humorous writing style and self-deprecating humor make serious situations entertaining.
Readers appreciated:
- Raw portrayal of relationship dynamics on a small boat
- Balance of adventure and personal growth
- Vivid descriptions of sailing life and Pacific locations
- Authentic portrayal of facing fears
Common criticisms:
- Some found the relationship focus overshadowed sailing details
- Several readers wanted more technical sailing information
- A few noted repetitive descriptions of fear/anxiety
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.9/5 (6,800+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.5/5 (580+ ratings)
Sample review: "She manages to be funny while scared out of her mind. Her descriptions put you right there on the boat with them - both the beautiful moments and the terrifying ones." - Goodreads reviewer
"Great story but too much focus on the romance when I wanted more about the actual sailing journey." - Amazon reviewer
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌊 Torre DeRoche overcame a lifelong phobia of deep water to embark on this Pacific sailing journey, which became the basis for the memoir.
⛵ The author met her sailing partner Ivan in a San Francisco bar, where he promised to take her on an adventure across the ocean—despite her having zero sailing experience.
🌎 Their journey covered approximately 7,000 nautical miles through the South Pacific, visiting remote islands like the Marquesas, Tuamotus, and Society Islands.
📚 The book rights were originally purchased by a major publisher but later reverted to DeRoche, who successfully self-published it before it was picked up again by Hyperion.
🎬 The film rights to "Love with a Chance of Drowning" were optioned by Working Title Films, known for romantic comedies like "Notting Hill" and "Bridget Jones's Diary."