📖 Overview
A graduate student sells her eggs to fund her PhD studies, while a wealthy woman struggles with infertility and seeks a surrogate to carry her child. Their lives intersect with two other women: a young wife hoping to help her husband through medical school by serving as a surrogate, and a rebellious teenager considering giving up her baby for adoption.
Four distinct storylines converge as these women navigate complex decisions about motherhood, family bonds, and what it means to create life. The narrative moves between their perspectives, revealing their individual circumstances, relationships, and the choices that bring them together.
The story examines the intersection of privilege, class, and reproductive technology in contemporary America. Through these characters' experiences, the novel explores questions about genetic connection, what makes a mother, and how money influences reproductive choices.
The themes that surface include the bonds between mothers and children, the power dynamics in assisted reproduction, and the different ways women define family and motherhood. Through their intertwined journeys, the book raises questions about the ethics and emotions involved in modern family-making.
👀 Reviews
Readers found this to be a lighter beach read that tackles complex themes around surrogacy, egg donation, and motherhood. The interweaving stories of four women resonated with many readers who appreciated seeing different perspectives on fertility and family-building.
Likes:
- Multiple character viewpoints provide depth
- Emotional impact of fertility struggles felt authentic
- Strong development of relationships between characters
- Balanced handling of ethical issues
Dislikes:
- Some found the ending rushed and too neat
- Characters' voices sound similar/hard to distinguish
- Predictable plot elements
- Too many coincidental connections between characters
One reader noted: "The characters felt real but the plot relied too heavily on convenience to bring them together."
Ratings:
Goodreads: 3.7/5 (27,000+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.2/5 (450+ ratings)
Barnes & Noble: 4/5 (100+ ratings)
The book maintains steady 3-4 star ratings across most review platforms, with readers split on whether the multi-perspective approach enhanced or detracted from the story.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🔹 Author Jennifer Weiner wrote "Then Came You" partly inspired by her own experience with fertility treatments and her sister's role as an egg donor.
🔹 The novel explores four different perspectives on surrogacy and egg donation at a time (2011) when these topics were still somewhat taboo in mainstream fiction.
🔹 The book's character Jules, a Princeton student who donates her eggs for money, reflects a real-world trend of ivy league students being specifically sought after by fertility clinics for their eggs.
🔹 Jennifer Weiner was already a #1 New York Times bestselling author when she wrote this book, having achieved that status with her debut novel "Good in Bed" (2001).
🔹 The author conducted extensive research on gestational surrogacy laws, which vary significantly by state in the US, to accurately portray the legal complexities faced by her characters.