📖 Overview
A young boy comes home upset after seeing his classmate's drawing of him with exaggerated eyes. His father helps him process this experience by showing him family photos and discussing their shared Chinese heritage.
The boy learns about the significance of eyes in his family through interactions with his Ba-Ba (father), Agong (grandfather), and Di-Di (younger brother). Through their eyes, he sees connections to their ancestors and cultural identity.
This picture book explores themes of self-acceptance, family bonds, and cultural pride through the lens of Asian American identity. The story demonstrates how family support can transform a negative experience into an opportunity for understanding and empowerment.
👀 Reviews
Readers appreciate how the book validates Asian boys' experiences and builds self-esteem through its depiction of family relationships and cultural heritage. Many parents note their sons see themselves represented in the illustrations and relate to the main character.
Positive reviews highlight:
- Multi-generational family bonds shown through eye shapes
- Empowering message about cultural pride
- Quality of illustrations depicting Asian faces and expressions
Common criticisms:
- Text feels repetitive
- Story lacks a strong narrative arc
- Some find the metaphors about eyes abstract for young readers
Ratings:
Goodreads: 4.34/5 (1,100+ ratings)
Amazon: 4.8/5 (240+ ratings)
Several reviewers mention using this as a companion to Ho's "Eyes That Kiss in the Corners." One parent wrote: "My 6-year-old son finally has a picture book where the main character looks like him. He asks to read it every night."
Some teachers note it works well for classroom discussions about identity and representation.
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🤔 Interesting facts
🌟 Author Joanna Ho wrote this book as a companion to her bestselling "Eyes That Kiss in the Corners," drawing inspiration from her own family, particularly her father and two sons
🌟 The book celebrates Asian male representation and cultural pride, addressing a significant gap in children's literature where Asian boys rarely see themselves as main characters
🌟 Traditional Chinese symbols and cultural elements are woven throughout the illustrations, including dragons which represent strength, good luck, and power in Chinese culture
🌟 The main character's journey of self-discovery is inspired by real experiences of Asian American children navigating between their cultural heritage and American identity
🌟 The illustrator, Dung Ho, though sharing the same surname as the author, is not related to Joanna Ho - she is a Vietnamese artist known for her emotionally resonant children's book illustrations